To Fortune & Fame:
I am writing to formally document and clarify the circumstances surrounding my recent housing arrangement and interactions.
I am writing to formally document and clarify the circumstances surrounding my recent housing arrangement and interactions with >>>>>>>>.
At the outset, I was offered what was presented as an open-ended living arrangement. This offer was made with assurances that implied trust, goodwill, and a sense of long-standing family friendship. Based on this, I entered the agreement in good faith. However, I was later informed — with inconsistent and unsubstantiated reasoning — that I would need to vacate by December. While I respect the right of any property owner to set terms for their space, the lack of honesty and shifting explanations highlighted a concerning lack of transparency and integrity.
We reconnected after more than two decades at my mother’s Celebration of Life. At that time, Phil appeared to be a warm, supportive individual. However, my experience living in the shared space revealed a very different reality — one marked by passive-aggressive behavior, control dynamics, and an overall lack of respect for boundaries.
One example is the garage, which remained filled with clutter during winter months, effectively preventing me from using it for my vehicle despite it being part of our arrangement. This decision, whether intentional or negligent, significantly impacted my mobility and safety during extreme weather.
Another incident that raised concern was the unauthorized removal of a personal item — a book — from my private room. This item was given to a third party (his daughter) without my permission or even the courtesy of a conversation. This demonstrated a disregard for personal property and consent, which is unacceptable in any shared living space.
Throughout my time there, I conducted myself with honesty, respect, and integrity. I expected the same in return. Unfortunately, what I experienced instead was a level of condescension and control that I cannot ignore. I was treated with a dismissiveness that I believe stems from an inability to handle strong, self-aware women, which is deeply problematic and reflects broader patterns of gender bias and psychological manipulation.
This letter is intended not as an attack, but as a clear record of events and boundaries. I will not be gaslit, disrespected, or silenced. My standards for how I am treated are non-negotiable.
I trust this will serve as a professional and truthful account, should any further clarification be required.
Sincerely,
Shelly Sullivan
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First of all, you promised me an open-ended living arrangement, leading me to believe I was dealing with someone of integrity — a genuine family friend. That illusion shattered the moment you backtracked with a string of weak, inconsistent excuses about why I suddenly needed to leave by December. Let’s be honest: the excuses weren’t just disappointing, they exposed a deeper issue — your complete lack of authenticity.
When I saw you at my mother’s Celebration of Life after 20 years, you presented yourself as a cheerful, supportive man. Living with you revealed the truth: that image was just a performance. The reality couldn’t be further from what you portrayed.
Your stunt with the garage — leaving it packed with junk in the middle of winter so I’d be snowed in — was not only thoughtless, it was petty. And it made something else crystal clear: your so-called support was performative from the start.
You don’t even realize you’re being used as a pawn — a puppet for the very system you serve without question. The military-industrial complex you revere is hollowing you out from the inside, eroding your spirit, and compromising your soul. You won’t hear this from me again. You’ll figure it out on your own — eventually. I won’t be around to say “I told you so.”
I know who I am. I am a pure-hearted, sovereign woman with angelic DNA — and your disrespect says far more about your own issues with powerful, awakened women than it ever could about me. It’s disgraceful, and frankly, childish.
I’ve been nothing but honest, kind, and straightforward with you — and what did I get in return? You went into my private room and took a book that was sacred to me, gifting it to your daughter without even asking. That was a major red flag. That’s when I really saw you.
Don’t kid yourself — I see right through the fake “authority figure” act you put on. It’s transparent. A shell. An ego costume worn by someone who has no idea how deep the manipulation really runs.
Good luck continuing to serve a war you don’t even realize you’re enslaved to. Your programming runs deeper than you know — cyborg-style. But that’s your path to walk.
I’m done holding space for this illusion. I see the truth. And I refuse to be disrespected, dismissed, or diminished by someone who doesn’t even know who they are anymore.